First of all, you need to know if the lady had anal sex at all. If she had such an experience and she refuses, then it is obvious that the girl was scared or had painful sensations. You can say "Thanks!" to a past partner who didn't even bother to go to the adult video chat section and watch anal fisting on webcams...
In any case, before you get closer, you need to talk to the girl and invite her to have anal sex. If the girl is afraid, you can offer her to manage the process. She can sit on the penis from above or while lying on her side, take the penis in her hand and direct it to the anus. At this moment, it will be convenient for you to caress her clitoris with your hands and kiss her neck and ears.
Pain during anal sex - Is there true or lie?!
Many women experience pain at the very beginning when the penis expands the anus. This is due to the male quickness. The sexual act itself can be completely painless and very pleasant with emotions, and even an orgasm.
The most common mistake is an attempt to "forcefully" insert a penis or finger into the anus. Do not do this! Try to bring the girl smoothly. You should caress her anus with your tongue, slightly inserting it inside, massage the clitoris to arouse the lady. The most important thing is to be affectionate and gentle. During intercourse, you can caress the anus with the head of the penis, but do not try to insert it inside.
Free Anal Sex - correct interaction
You do not need to rush and make unnecessary movements in anal sex. The girl will choose the right rhythm and speed. Do not insert the penis deeply, because the sensory nerves are at a depth of 2-3 centimeters from the entrance to the anus.
By the way, as a hint of anal sex, you can watch a porn movie together with an anal scene or purchase an anal stimulator, such as a chain or balls. The main thing is not to overdo it with size.
Right lubricants for best anal sex
Do not forget to use lubricants for anal sex! You can buy these items at the sex shop. It is best to choose lubricants with vitamin E and a cooling effect. This will help relax the muscles of the anus and make sex more comfortable for you and your girlfriend. In addition, there are special condoms for anal sex. But this is not for everybody, especially if you do not like the very feeling of rubber.
Pay attention to that most women over 35 have a positive attitude towards anal sex and willingly go for it. Many are ready to have anal sex even without preparation. It's a part of the female sex, which has learned to correctly understand this type of sex and enjoy the male penis in her own anus. There are women who love it when men, and sometimes girls, caress the anus with real banana. Then this banana can be inserted into the vagina. So try not to be wrong about teaching young girls. Remember that a lot depends on you in this matter.